What is the "Stop Wondering Method?"

 

The SW Method is a step-by-step process that guides people in their search for love. It's instrumental in telling readers exactly what to do at every stage in the dating process: from the search for the right person to the very first spark of chemistry through the first, second, third dates and beyond.

 

It's a dynamic, comprehensive, easy-to-follow system that empowers women. You won't wonder what to do on dates anymore or wonder how far to go or wonder if you are exclusive. You just need to follow the system and it will lead you down the path to a relationship.

 

How is this book different from other dating books?

 

What's different about this book is it's the last dating book you'll ever need to read. We're kicking a dating revolution into high gear here. This is not a book for people who want to remain single; this is a book for people who are looking for an intimate relationship.

 

This book is not about how to just "get a guy." It's about how to develop a real lasting love. By the way, we'll teach you how to find the guy, meet the guy, date the guy, turn the guy on and build something meaningful with the guy, too.

 

For the most part, modern dating books are nothing more than a collection of humorous bad date stories and quick situation specific advice that doesn't really work in the long run. This book starts at the root with YOU and your dating mindset. Once we help you understand your personal process and past dating patterns, we guide you through a dating system unlike anything you've ever heard of in your life.

 

What also makes this book unique is that it's written by two experts—a man and a woman. In most dating books, readers just get one point of view, but here both sexes are equally represented and we have spent a decade researching dating and relationships. Ryan is a certified life coach and Dr. Jessica Cassaday is a clinical psychologist and experienced sex therapist.

 

(One interesting fact is the we followed our own dating system, fell in love while writing the book and now are married. You might be wondering what a married couple can tell single people about dating? Answer: Everything. We've also been in the dating trenches all of their lives and have worked with clients around the world – couples and singles -- on dating and relationship issues.

 

In the book, we will teach readers how to enjoy dating on the way to a satisfying relationship or the outcome of your choice. Perhaps what you desire is simply a companion or close friend. This revolutionary system called The Stop Wondering Method works each and every time. This means no more of those horrible first dates looking across the salad course at some strange guy and wishing you were in the dentist's chair having a root canal.